Women are the most beautiful creatures ever. You can just get lost in them. I can stare at a photo of a woman forever and pour over every nuance. There have been very few times I have felt envy over another’s beauty, more curiosity and awe.
I’ve been fascinated with women and sexuality for as long as I can remember. My strongest memory I have of that as I look back on it now, was very defining. It really pin pointed who I was to become as a feminine and sexual being.
I do not see any reason why a porno cannot present a woman as a human being who is equal to the man when it comes to her sexual desires and pleasure. Why can’t we see a relationship between the characters? Why can’t we see them both enjoying the interaction? In real life we have sex to enjoy ourselves, so why does that have to change on film?
"When I met James he was freshly out of a relationship and I was in the wrong one... Our friendship grew every day as we talked more and got to know each other. The REAL each other - I certainly didn’t feel the need to impress him by not being myself."
Sexuality is an important part of who you are. Man or woman, somewhere deep down, we all possess desires, urges, and fantasies. Whether you choose to acknowledge this or not is a hundred percent up to you. However, I believe, you do not know your true self until you have become aware of your sexuality and accept all of you for who you are.
I never woke up one day magically craving an open relationship and announcing that I wanted to be a swinger. For a long time it wasn’t even something I was familiar with. Here and there I would kiss girls at the bar, manhandle gorgeous big boobs and always thought the female body was sexually appealing – but a swinger? No...